Forceful Hate

Forceful hate..This is something i feel many people experience through different stages in their life. Some may ask.. What is it? I would define forceful hate as a feeling of hate with which one forces on to him/herself to have towards another being. This can often be driven for numerous reasons, at times when one experiences a feeling of disappointment or betrayl, they begin to feel lost and down. Here i am speaking of the feelings one would have towards a person they previosuly cherished. Many people who are let down by a person they loved truly begin to feel the need to dislike or hate that person, this is where love is questionable yet again. Could a person who loves someone hate them? Should one not forgive those whom they love? If one begins to hate those he previously loved because of one crime or sin, then does that mean they ever loved that person?

As well as the definition of hate being an emotion of great dislike, enmity and revulsion it is also one of a desire to get rid of that object, to remove it and anhilate it. It is this second part of the definition that should be looked into. The question that now lies is this: Does the hate come from the need and want of removal of that object, or is hate the need or want to express hatred towards that object. For some it could be absolutely the same thing, however if you looked into this deeper you would actually realise that when you are in love or if you were in love it could mean something totally different.

I beleive that if your feelings are ever so true about a person or thing, then there would never be a feeling of hate or resentment for that person, no matter how much they let you down, however its a matter of whether strong enough love like that exists or not. We often read of these excellent love stories in novels, yet ive failed to see any exist in reality.