Advice for Women in relationships

The best way to get what you want out of life, if you are able to implement it.

1. If you have a husband/fiance or companion do not give them too much attention, because instead of appreciating it, it frustrates them, let them make the effort that way you wont be intruding on whatever it is that they are doing. Yes its about what you want to.. but in the long run it helps.

2. Think about your needs too, and dont always concentrate on the needs and wants of others, for if you do you will soon realise that you have not achieved anything in life, people dont tend to respect you even if youve offered pleasantries.

3. Dont be too nice and dont be too giving, people will never have a limit, and it will never be appreciated.

4. Expect nothing from people and you will never be disappointed.

5. Give and take, dont be too giving and dont be too stubborn, use your common sense and do what you believe is the best thing to do.

6. Never put anyone forward before everyone else, you end up with a pain in your heart that will be hard to alleviate alone.

7. Be practical in your expectations.

8. Concentrate on what you want out of a relationship and put your emotions to the side.

9. Set your priorities out infront of your partner from day one so that they dont get a nasty surprise.

10. Be firm in getting your point across if it means something to you.

11. If something is not right say so from the beginning, sort the problem then and there.

12. Try to understand the others point of view and give them a chance to express themselves before leaping into conclusions.

13. Use your brain and screw your heart.

14. Be sensible about things, reacting unnecessarily will never help you.

15. Patience is the key, but dont prolong the patience otherwise you will find yourself exploding..

Thats enough for now.. look out for more points to come later on..

What would you do if you woke up one day and felt that the thing you most adored in your life, the thing that meant the most to you, was infact nothing but a dream you had whisked up for yourself. You led yourself to believe in false hopes, falsehood itself just to satisfy some inner need.

There is so much to understand about each and every aspect in life, every concept, every thought, every idea, every reaction, every action..

But it is the way you look at it which determines how you will eventually contemplate it.

Grief and pain, are two things which are the most difficult to understand, but it is only those who have the power and the will who are able to overcome it, with strength and power like never before.