Love...what is it? Part 2

Last time i left off, i was discussing the fact that females especially during the age range of 15 to 19, are very easily flattered. This can be for a great number of reasons, being that during this period a girl is developing into a women, adapting to the changes around her, while developing her own mind. Her physical and mental change during this period allows her to seek some degree of independance where by she begins to implement her thoughts as they come to her. In this age group, the girl likes to be recognised as a somebody, she likes to be given that special attention. She feels she is growing into adulthood, and feels that she needs to be responsible, to be respected, and to be treated well and taken seriously. Parents are often very blind to this issue, and unfortunately at the age where their kids are needed the most, during their teenage years, they neglect their children. They feel that their adolscent children, are still too young to be taken seriously. It is this particular distance that the child and parent have in this period, which causes the child to find "love" and "care" elsewhere.

When a girl feels that she is not being cared for, and loved accordingly as she feels she deserves to be loved, she will without doubt look elsewhere. The place she finds what appears to be a solution, would be in a member of the opposite sex naturally. The moment a girl is flattered with words about her looks/physique and personality, she feels that she has found "the one", the person who will releive her from her miseries, who will make her life better, who will save her from the traumatic life she is undergoing. Although when i describe this i feel like i ought to laugh, because once upon a time, i felt that life was indeed so unfair to me, for reasons a, b and c, at the time, it must have meant a great deal to me, and i wanted to be taken seriously, although i sit and laugh now at it, its not quite fair on the "me" at that age, who wanted tending to.

to be cont..