Love...what is it? Part 1

Well... what is it?

What does it mean to you when you hear the word LOVE. I LOVE HIM. SHE LOVES HIM. HE LOVES HER. What is your first reaction? AWW thats cute! Oh really Cool! Right! I see.

Obviously you will say..well why does love have to associated with a male and a female couple, love can be for everyone. Well yes that is true, and i would like to discuss the other types of love soon, however for the time being i would like to discuss the love a male and female would have for each other, when they claim to have "fallen" in love. Fallen in the whim of love? or fallen for a sacrifice for the person whom they love? or what exactly is "fallen"?

I find that people often intrap themselves with the thought of being in "love" with another person, when the feeling they actually have for the person is none other than a "need" for them to be there. Rather than "I love him" it is "I need him". I need to be loved, i want to feel like someone cares about me. I want to feel protected. Those are the thoughts that are unsaid, that are present within each and every individual, but they mistake these feelings of insecurity for "love". I say this, because i personally have previously fallen for these whims, and only when you truly do "fall in love" you begin to be able to differentiate between what is love and what is not love.

I speak to many girls of a younger age than myself, you must of calculated this but i am exactly 19 years 7 months and 1 day old. Sadly enough i happen to know that. It might be a young age for some to come out, and speak like one has experienced so much, having climbed everest, and sailed to the far east, But i feel that a person with the ability to think beyond the norm, on a daily basis, should be given the worth to be heard out (accompany that with a smile). The girls i speak to, are mostly involved with males, well its not something suprising from ages 15 to 19, its very normal in fact, but in this age range, is someone really able to "love" or understand the meaning of love? Most of these girls, are overly flattered by the slightest comment. Let us understand why. I will continue this shortly as i have to go for now.