understanding dependancy on the opposite sex

I have always thought that men and women could live individually in this world without relying on others, and certainly not someone from the opposite gender. I believed the notion of "independant women" and how they managed perfectly without men. Lately I have come to realise that this is not so. Women need to depend on men at times, there always comes a time, when you need a man around, a basic example is if you are a mother who has kids, and your child falls terribly ill, as strong a mother as you may be you will not be able to handle the situation emotionally as well as the father of your child. Women need men to help them along with maintaining their confidence, the little comments we receive from men like "you look amazing" or "that was very thoughtful of you dear" or even "this dish youve cooked is very tasty" all these comments are a boost for our confidence as women, we love appreciation, we love gratitude, I mean who doesnt!!

Some may feel that the comments made above are sexist, or biased if anything, but I personally see that in an attempt to defame the uniqueness within each sex, and the appointed roles for them, people have gone to as far a means as they can just to make any specific roles as suitable for both sexes and that equality comes in that form, which is wrong!!

So far we have only spoken about women depending on men.. well as for the men, they cant escape that quickly from responsibilities... yessss they need us too!! believe it or not! They need a woman in terms of courage and confidence build, they need the soft affection and devotion, the dependancy we have on them, that form of bodily power they wish to posses. While we women are recognised as the main drivers of a relationship, we can say that men are the bodies..

A man needs to work around a caring and loving atmosphere which he helps to build, although love and affection can be achieved from family, it is never the same as the love and affection you get from a spouse because that love and affection is solely for you.

The intimate relationship between a man and a woman, sexually speaking creates a bond between the two, and bridges the gap of desires that the soul has cravings for. The spiritual uproot from such an act can create a strength in itself..

I will continue with this another time, as my eyelids are about to drop off..